We don't want the same thing (Couples edition)
FOR COUPLES: How do we claim our life visions and get on the same page?
What do you do when you’re in a relationship and your goals and dreams aren’t quite matching up…
You want the same things at different times… or different things entirely.
What happens when one of you are working towards creating a vision and pulling it into reality… and the other… isn’t that emotionally invested.
How can we stay connected in relationship, and honour each others path while also finding ways to get on the same page.
Todays Substack is a collaboration between husband and wife duo
and diving into a podcast style conversation. (I’m already cringe giggling at writing this in 3rd person).(Please also note, this is Kat cringe giggling, not Tully, but seeing as this will go out to both our communities here, I need to make that clear haha!)
If you are new here,
is a relationship coach and has been working with thousands of couples in various capacities professionally over the last nine years.He is sought out globally for for private coaching, and his most popular offering is his Liberating Love Relationship Mastery program. Doors have opened for enrolments but not for much longer so please take a look if it speaks to you.
works with mothers in intuitively led, soulful business. Through unpacking creative processes and illuminating mother centric frameworks that support mothers in their businesses, while doing the inner work required to deconstruct paradigms and systems that are not supportive of raising businesses and babies side by side.Kat worked with Tully as a relationship coach and retreat facilitator during 2017-2021 and this is a big reason why they love to join forces and have these podcast conversations shared.
They hope you enjoy this episode and believe it will be valuable to both their communities.
In this conversation, we discuss
WHY do you want to be on the same page
When you want the same things but at different times.
Me vs You mentality and feeling like your needs won’t be met.
Practical or intuitive/creative dynamics. What do we prioritise?
What do we make it mean when the other isn’t on board our ideas (I’m not good enough/ they doesn’t love me as much/ Doesn’t respect me)
How can we “Values link” and get into a support mode for our partner and them for us.
And so much more.
Hope you enjoy!
Lots of love, Kat and Tully.
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Do you have anything that stood out to you in this episode? Share it in the comments below, we would love to hear from you.
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Tully’s Liberating Love Relationship Mastery is open for enrolments right now.
This signature program has seen through hundreds and hundreds of couples and has helped clear resentment, stagnation, frustration, looping the same patterns and brought them into more connection, intimacy, love, understanding, and feeling connected to the same vision moving forward.
It’s seen couples who have split up, get back together and thrive with their family,
and others who have been married 25+ years have conversations and reveal parts of themselves they’ve never had before.
Come take a look at the full module break down here, and listen to the last 5 minutes of this audio podcast to hear more.
Liberating Love Relationship Mastery is a unique blend of pre-recorded professional bite size classes (Think, tea or glass of wine on the couch together once the kids are down, date night with Tul) AND Live coaching calls via zoom, alternating between women’s calls, mens calls and couples calls.
This allows couples to work through content at their own pace, pausing, discussing and integrating… and keeping their finger on the real time pulse of their relationship with support from Tully to work through things as they come up.
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If you want more to see if you resonate with Tully’s teaching style,
You can download his FREE 90minute masterclass here on the Four Pillars of a thriving relationship and work through it together.
Thank you friends for listening to todays episode. For those wanting to deep dive into this work, Tully cannot wait to work with you.
Lot’s of love, Kat and Tully.
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Liberating Love (and all the coaching we’ve done with Tully) absolutely changed the game for us as a couple especially with little kids ❤️ Can’t recommend it enough. We still say all the time ‘we’re on the same team’ ‘your my number one’ ‘my dream guy’ etc. I feel like we’ve been in the trenches for the last year since going from 1-2 but LL gave us invaluable tools to go back time & time again. Love your guys work the world over! Can’t wait to go back & listen to this soon x
Kat & Tully,
This was an excellent podcast/conversation. The content was great but what you modeled was spectacular (because of the understanding, appreciation and love in your relationship).
I left this IM for a friend who is working in the same spaces, and it explains what I mean above:
"This is a very good audio, explaining the concept of appreciation in couples. I thought they modeled (in the conversation) how men and women come at everything differently and how it all can and should fit together so naturally and easily. They seem like a very grounded, powerful and deeply loving couple - you can tell via the balance in how they give space to one another, to explain their thoughts & ideas and then compliment them. No sign at all of power grabbing, power struggles or egos."
Such great and important work you two are doing, to bring Men & Women to beautiful spaces and relationships they either didn't know existed or always thought "that's only for lucky people".
Bravo!!