When you hit your glass ceiling.
It's time to recalibrate, not settle.
Hey Friends, This post is discussing some current themes that are hot on my heart at the moment in our BTS life, though I’m sure many of you will be able to relate and see how it threads through your life too. Especially when you feel your body calibrating to a new reality, and you feel like your face is squished against a glass ceiling….
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You know what it’s like.
When you look around at your life and there’s a little disconnect.
It doesn’t really feel like “Yours” anymore.
Maybe you like it.
Maybe you don’t.
Either way, you can’t keep ignoring the little niggle sitting in your solar plexus nudging you like a dog does when it really wants another pat.
I’ll be speaking to a very specific person today - because after years and years of living ruthlessly committed to living a life that DOES feel like mine… I’ve learned not everybody wants to shake things up every few years, do big pivots, and make space for magic to flood in.
I get it.
It’s pretty ungrounding.
Some prefer to not burn it all to the ground.
Some don’t want to wake up in a few more months and look around and see another blank canvas and the mystery of the unknown swirling around them again.
Though also…
Some people do.
Some of you are craving something big, deeper within your body.
Something dramatic.
The thing is… when we are feeling that way, we have two options.
We either ignore it, and eventually fate steps in and shakes our life up in a way that is often less than ideal in order to reroute us.
Or
We can choose it for ourselves in a more inspiring way.
The current themes of life we are moving through as a family right now, is that we are feeling like our cheeks are pressed up against our own glass ceiling.
From the outside looking in,
Life’s beautiful.
We both work from home, in creative ways that support our family financially.
We live in a beautiful place, even though we are location independent - meaning we are not bound by work to be anywhere.
We have loads of family time that is quality.
We maintain a beautiful, intimate and respectful relationship even in stressful scenarios.
We are inspired by our work and we are inspired by our community.
AND
Still,
after a couple of years… that inner rumbling has returned.
The whisper of
“Okay,
it’s time to go.
Get your inner world ready.
Soon it will all be unrecognisable again”.
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