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Mother Musing.'s avatar

Wow, wow, wow. This was beautiful, and lovely and fantastic. Feel all of this so deeply right now.

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Genevieve M. Westerman's avatar

I enjoyed listening to you. So much resonates. 🙏🏾♥️ It sounds like we're on the same wavelength. 😊 You just seem to be farther along. 😉

I see mothers rising from patriarchal ashes since so many are waking up that we can no longer live and work the way past generations have done.

We can do this without sacrifice, burnout, etc. But with lots of Erotic energy (the erotic as posited by Audre Lorde in her essay The Uses of the Erotic ;)), the fire within which conceived, shaped, and gave birth to (a) whole human being(s).

We are already powerful. And together? That's something the world is about to see. 😉

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Kat River's avatar

Yes just LOVE that you spoke into erotic energy! Crucial in my belief for a thriving mothercentric biz without burnout xx

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Kate West's avatar

Yes! Echoing back this belief that so many of us received that more success = more responsibility, so we push away the success because we don’t feel we have the capacity to respond! $$$

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Kat River's avatar

Yes! Is this in your past or something you are currently working with

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Kate West's avatar

I’d say when I assess my body, that pattern is still operating, yes. I’m learning new ways of being and operating that make that old belief system void, and it’s a process. 💛

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Kate West's avatar

I absolutely resonate and love what you’re saying about the energetic contracts we have with our ideas and the creativity moving through us. I speak this way to my dreamweaver team but didn’t make the small bridge to creative energy. Yessss! Thank you Kat.

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Kat River's avatar

So welcome. Glad you’ve found your way here ✨✨✨

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Rachel Maiyun's avatar

I'm downloading the Substack app again after a wee break because of this video...so yes to video from me! And I'll be in touch re AOA 🤍 Love it all x

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Kat River's avatar

Love this!! I mean I took a hiatus too! We’re all being called back somehow

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Rachel Maiyun's avatar

It's such a delicious space. Question...with the Thursday calls, how long are they? I would rather be on the lives but just figuring out logistics as I'm with both babes by myself that day xx

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Kat River's avatar

Totally! Lives go for 2 hrs. Kids are almost always welcome, there will be a couple of bits (visioning breathwork, and lotus ceremony) that you’ll likely prefer some space. Many have kids on laps or in the room x

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Sarah George's avatar

Great video really enjoyed it.

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Rewilding Mama's avatar

Youuu in your fire within motherhood + creativity just gives me (and so many others) LIFE 🔥🔥 you’re a fkn queen or whatever this emoji is: 🧝🏼‍♀️ that’s you. Ok bye love you

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Kat River's avatar

Adore you!!

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Georgia's avatar

Loved the video format for this sort of content!

So excited for AOA

In working out what I need to step away from to allow me to be the creative I’m wanting to be...

Yes I feel like I need to expand my capacity, which comes with our move next month.

And I think the part of me that’s overly stressed, anxious and needs to be in control needs to loosen the reigns a bit.

Xxx

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Kat River's avatar

Totally babe love the self reflections in this.

What would have you feel safe to let go control x

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Georgia's avatar

I think to have a home and a loose routine (not in a different space all the time). Like i've been in survival mode without those things and to have that means our basic needs are met and I can finally let go x

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Kat River's avatar

10000% and your response to it all has been totally accurate considering circumstances!

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Georgia's avatar

xxx

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Jessy Easton's avatar

Beautiful, Kat. The idea that the fear of success—or the block to success—is actually *success itself* because of the fear of not being able to hold it all, of carrying the weight of its responsibilities—that hit me hard. I’ve burned out before, over and over, so this resonated deeply. I hadn’t even realized that I might be unintentionally keeping success at arm’s length for that very reason.

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Kat River's avatar

I am so glad that hit home for you! Thank you for watching xx

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Cody Lee's avatar

Loved this short video. You speak in a lovely easy and eloquent way 🧡 I just read all about AOA and am thinking about joining. I know there’s things to come through for me creatively with writing, but fear , self doubt & not knowing how to structure myself has held me back. X.

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Kat River's avatar

Oh thank you for your feedback, so appreciated.

And I’m glad you took a look through AOA. Fear and self doubt are friends here. And once they become friends they transform before you’re eyes into liberation and self confidence xxxx

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Wand(HER)wild | Virtual Events's avatar

Love the video Kat & the conversation shared <3

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Kat River's avatar

Thank you for commenting and watching it! Xxx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Lovely to see you back here, I love a short and sweet video! Xx

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Kat River's avatar

Hello beautiful! So nice to see your name. Glad you’re still here xx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Yes still exploring and dancing over here with all the multi faceted pieces!! 🥰

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Kat River's avatar

What’s new in your world??

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Oh gosh… that’s a big question… and also while it feels like there is so much newness… nothing obvious has changed that much either!! 🤪 taking motherhood day by day with the two girls while also showing up for my creativity and community… building a studio in our garden so I can bring more in person to my heart work… trying to weave sacred into the mundane daily… how are your little ones??? X

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Kat River's avatar

Need to see this studio. What a dream project!

Both boys are good. Raf started at a little nature play bush school today 2 half days a week and Ren just got over balanitis. I’m sure you had to google. Wild times being a boy mum 🤪

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Studio photos I will have to dig out and share with you… it is still needing quite a bit of work but can’t wait to have that space. And yes… I dd have to google than… sounds nasty bless him!!! Vesper started at pre school for two mornings a week in January and it is really lovely… Sophia started school in September and is loving it. She is such a sponge. Both are extremley sassy and independent but while that is hard to parent I wouldn’t have it any other way!! x

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Tiffany Writes's avatar

Lovely to see you & hear you! Art of Alchemy sounds like a wonderful enriching container for creating, birthing or even playing in the realms of dreams & whispers. After all, out of the littlest things, the magnificent grow.

I’m still a mama but my child is a bonafide grown up. It’s funny because as I listened I identified with the shoving things down, the disregarding & the moving on past the ideas & concepts I have shelved as I busily mothered other people & their needs/projects/wishes. My son left home & I just filled the gigantic hole with other people & other people’s things. Thank you for this prompt- I needed it!! 🧡

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Kat River's avatar

You are always welcome to join us. The mother lines are long and never disappear. The themes morph and evolve but mother is mother. Love to you ! So good to see your name pop up here again it’s been a while since I’ve been more present in this space xx

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Tiffany Writes's avatar

Oooh okay! I’m going to think on this. I’m in a state of flux & needing some camaraderie & support.

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Kat River's avatar

Never any pressure, but please just know you are welcome if you feel the call. X

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