I have recently joined Substack as a reader and intend to start my own as an artist, creator. Yes I have been so thoroughly disheartened by IG and yes I am here to look for real, meaningful connections. I think it would be easy to feel thoroughly disheartened here too if I don't change my perspective as it showed up in IG land.... that 'this isn't working'. I am therefore really grateful to read this before I start my Substack journey. I will hold onto my reason for being here and enjoy it and not allow any metric to spoil what I'm hoping will be a thoroughly refreshing and rewarding experience. Thank you!
YES! This right here. It’s not the platform itself that is the issue, but our relationship with it - much like everything in life, really. Thank you for sharing so boldly, I deeply appreciate it.
So many beautifully open questions to ponder with ourselves here Kat. You really have a knack of finding the vulnerable mind of our human race in everything you speak on xxx
Best I read in a long time! Not only the depth of reflection included. But I have to highlight your provocative and absolutely brilliant style. How you carry the reader seamlessly from one sentence to the next. Just brilliant
I came to Substack because I was shadow banned on previous blog and it ended up being a blessing. Amazing amount of great writers on every topic that I love, and engaged readers.
I was formerly stuck in the comparison trap on Substack, trying to figure out how to increase subscribers and it made me resentful and not enjoy the process of writing anymore. I was stuck into the vortex of notes and it sucked me of my energy and I honestly didn’t really want to be there. So I stopped trying to gain big growth and comparing (mostly...I’m human and I’d be lying if I wasn’t doing it a little) and now I’m enjoying the conversations and thoughts from my small internet community.
Ooooo lord. I could not stop reading this. I hung on to every word. Sounded like a similar rant I've had in my head over and over again. But you are spot on. In some ways the social platforms and tech become mirrors for our fears and shadows. And are totally transferable between the platforms. Kind of like travelling to another country, only to find you have unfortunately brought yourself and misery along for the ride. I just went on a 10 day Vipassana silent retreat and your words are very much in line with this. Essentially we are creating misery by craving what others have or feeling aversion towards others constantly. It's the human condition which created and perpetuates suffering. And how much liberation can be found by neutralizing it all.. No good or bad. And just accepting with love and compassion...influencers and all!
Lots of great food for thought here. I try to keep coming back to trusting the process of life - that we are right where we need to be and we do not need to push the river, it flows by itself, as the saying goes. We just need to keep showing up, engaging and seeing what sparks of creativity want to move through us 😊
Not a lot to say because this post really hit me and helped me. Thank you for holding up a loving mirror!
I have recently joined Substack as a reader and intend to start my own as an artist, creator. Yes I have been so thoroughly disheartened by IG and yes I am here to look for real, meaningful connections. I think it would be easy to feel thoroughly disheartened here too if I don't change my perspective as it showed up in IG land.... that 'this isn't working'. I am therefore really grateful to read this before I start my Substack journey. I will hold onto my reason for being here and enjoy it and not allow any metric to spoil what I'm hoping will be a thoroughly refreshing and rewarding experience. Thank you!
YES! This right here. It’s not the platform itself that is the issue, but our relationship with it - much like everything in life, really. Thank you for sharing so boldly, I deeply appreciate it.
Just yes. And thank you. 🩵
So many beautifully open questions to ponder with ourselves here Kat. You really have a knack of finding the vulnerable mind of our human race in everything you speak on xxx
Thank you for reading Lori!🥰🥰
Ohhh this made me think...
Fuck yeah gurl 🔥 🌈 💨 (yes I typed in fire rainbow fart ) that’s how rad this post is .
Best I read in a long time! Not only the depth of reflection included. But I have to highlight your provocative and absolutely brilliant style. How you carry the reader seamlessly from one sentence to the next. Just brilliant
Oh Elin you are so generous with your love thank you!
Kat! Brilliant! Bravo Girl, you go! Thanks for showing us the way and reminding us to hold steady❤
I came to Substack because I was shadow banned on previous blog and it ended up being a blessing. Amazing amount of great writers on every topic that I love, and engaged readers.
I was formerly stuck in the comparison trap on Substack, trying to figure out how to increase subscribers and it made me resentful and not enjoy the process of writing anymore. I was stuck into the vortex of notes and it sucked me of my energy and I honestly didn’t really want to be there. So I stopped trying to gain big growth and comparing (mostly...I’m human and I’d be lying if I wasn’t doing it a little) and now I’m enjoying the conversations and thoughts from my small internet community.
Ooooo lord. I could not stop reading this. I hung on to every word. Sounded like a similar rant I've had in my head over and over again. But you are spot on. In some ways the social platforms and tech become mirrors for our fears and shadows. And are totally transferable between the platforms. Kind of like travelling to another country, only to find you have unfortunately brought yourself and misery along for the ride. I just went on a 10 day Vipassana silent retreat and your words are very much in line with this. Essentially we are creating misery by craving what others have or feeling aversion towards others constantly. It's the human condition which created and perpetuates suffering. And how much liberation can be found by neutralizing it all.. No good or bad. And just accepting with love and compassion...influencers and all!
Love this piece Kat, and so many profound comments engendered. Thanks and Peace, Maurice
Thanks for taking the time to read!
Lots of great food for thought here. I try to keep coming back to trusting the process of life - that we are right where we need to be and we do not need to push the river, it flows by itself, as the saying goes. We just need to keep showing up, engaging and seeing what sparks of creativity want to move through us 😊
Yes yes I’m so here for this perspective
Even my stubborn heart feels reinvigorated with excitement, curiosity and even optimism. Beautiful read, thanks Kat.
Hahahha this brings me JOY to read! Thank you and thank you for staying open x
This is beautiful!!! Thank you for this reminder Kat ❤️
Thank you Kathi!